The paper contextualizes this process by sketching out how economic forces scattered slaves and free blacks, men and women, and young and old across space in North America. It then reflects on how such experiences of diaspora fragmented African American relationships among kin, between genders, and across generations. Upon these unstable grounds, African Americans improvised forms of care that spanned generations. This paper looks not only at prominent African American autobiographers like Frederick Douglas and Harriet Jacobs; it also highlights narratives in archival records. For example, there was the elderly slave Toney, whose sons “tended” to him; the former black preacher Jarena Lee who relied on the “contributions of others” in her old age. Building on such evidence, this paper shows how African Americans changed their approaches to and ethics of care during the century, all the while trying to stitch together families and communities across multiple generations.